part 1.I met this boy on saturday. He's asexual. We were hanging out at a friends drinking with some people and he hates being touched and this was also his first time drinking. Through out the night we started giving each other random high fives and the friends that knew him were shocked. In the morning when every one was sleeping we were awake talking for hours, he came over monday and we held hands, he said touch usually hurts but mine was a relief. we kissed. we cuddled.
Part 2. I think he wants to date me. But if hes asexual does he really want it? or is he maybe just experimenting. Or is he no longer asexual because hes sexually attracted to me. something he says hes never felt before. before that night he had never held hands, kissed any one, and didnt hug anyone out side of his family.
Asexual people can still have and enjoy relationships and sex.
This is where you should talk with him and ask him what he wants between you. :)